YOU ARE NOT ALONE

Using my Masters in Counseling, personal experience, and the power of God I hope to equip individuals with the tools for victory over a troubled marriage.

This is a safe place to go incognito to find light in a dark hour.

Thursday, December 1, 2011

You inner circle of counselors and friends

Christian people need to together for the purpose of strength and accountability, meeting together in small groups of 2 or more. Finding your support group is imperative. If you can’t find one then start one. If you are isolated, no matter what causes it, i.e. business, hurt, depression the list is endless; you are in a dangerous place.

Find those few people who you want in your inner circle. Blessed is the person who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers. Who has your ear? Are they making God and his ways a priority in their life. We become like those we hang out with. God says if you want to be prosperous then delight in reading the word, meditate on in day and night. IF you do this you will yield much fruit, you will not dry up and you will prosper in WHATEVER YOU DO.

For a marriage moment comment: Focus for the wife, nothing can replace good girlfriends. Don't expect your husband to try and fill their shoes. Men while the wife is out with her girlfriends, you go get some "Man" time. Do all your grunting, farting, hunting, watching sports, get let you wild side out. When you feel fullfilled hanging with your "like kind" then go home and be what your mate needs. Men be loving and gentle and women honor, respect and adore your husband.

Melissa